naw thanks guys!!! i’m going to try my hardest in between my uni work to post over the next couple of days. thanks so much for these messages they really do mean alot xo-4 months ago
Its hard, i sympathize with you a lot cause im one of those people who lives in the past and it just seems so hard letting go sometimes.
I know for me the only way I can even try to get over someone is to do new and interesting things with people who are going to remind you there’s much more to being happy than just him. Do something you’ve always wanted to do, get outside in nature, meditate, exercise. All seem pretty simple but they all really help you stay in a positive frame if mind and looking after yourself always helps us release our happy hormones :)
I think its also important to be sad, let yourself be upset and dont block the pain by being wreckless, I say that because a lot of us are guilty of doing things that will temporary feel good like finding another boy or going out and drinking but will only make us feel worse in the long run.
This has been long but I hope it helps. Just remember that its all apart of learning and one day you’ll probably look back and realize that letting go of him was probably the best thing for you despite it hurting like crazy now
Much love!! Xo